I will not go on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit FROM 12:00am on 01/07/2013 until 1am on 01/14/2013.
Long Term Goals: Pare my social networking down to a reasonable amount, and remember what it's like to not find out what everyone is doing or thinking every minute of every day.
Exceptions: Twitter for work, but a minimum. LinkedIn, because it's no fun and I need to go there for work. I'd add Google+ here, but come on.
WHY?
Because I'm on there too god damn much, wiling away hours and hours and scrolling through on my phone until I get to the last post I looked at 20 minutes ago. It's a total time suck, and my efforts to curtail them work for about a day or 2, and then I'm navel-gazing again at everyone's kids and pets and meals and opinions on Obama/Guns.
Let's take them one at a time:
Facebook: No original idea here. Facebook is funny. I came to the party later to a lot of people, and was dragged there kicking and screaming. Now, it's a central communication hub for me. For many people, I couldn't get in touch with them without Facebook. I've rekindled friendships on there, and I curse the 3 friends I have that don't have Facebook accounts because I need to call them and be like HAY DID YOU HEAR HERP AND DERP McDERPSON HAD QUINTUPLETS OF COURSE YOU DIDN'T BECAUSE YOU'RE TOO COOL FOR FACEBOOK WHEN DID I BECOME YOUR RUMOR BITCH
This said, it's a total fuxing time suck. I waste more hours :
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SECRET ALLEY MURDERER |
- looking at everyone's stupid kids/pets/meals/vacation photos (note, not YOUR kids/pets/meals/vacation photos. I love YOUR kids/pets/meals/vacation photos)
- looking to see if anyone commented on the pictures of my stupid kid/pet/meal/vacation photos/pithy comment/obscure reference
- wondering why you'd post that? I mean, people can READ THIS. INTERNET PEOPLE. THAT YOU KNOW. THAT YOU MAY WORK WITH.
- wondering what the hell your post means. don't be VAGUE and tell me "what goes around comes around". Tell me how the guy from Accounts Payable/the airport/the cockfight ring wronged you. Tell me who you want to be dragged naked through a filthy alley by a gang of long-haired daschunds. I know a guy. I can help. NETWORKING AT WORK.
- looking at my past posts and thinking "Jesus. Don't I think I'm just the wittiest guy ever because I posted a Hold Steady lyric as my status". /punches self in gullet
Facebook is super. But much like Miller High Life, it's to be enjoyed in moderation, and only after a hard day or week. Not at work or in bed. Or in a meeting.
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If any of you connected crazygonuts
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Twitter: I don't tweet a ton, but I read tweets like CRAZYGONUTS. Twitter has become more of a go to for me since the election, because GOD DAMN people are hilarious dickheads on twitter about real issues.
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My rationale here is that Twitter's snarkiness is making me snarkier than I need to be. These people are dicks. Hilarious, yes. But I can catch up later.
Reddit: This one won't be too bad, because I can go other places to see pictures of grumpy cats.
Again, another place I don't accomplish anything, short of going HEH. or HUH. or OH GOD WHY.
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The common thread here is PISSING AWAY TIME. I have a pile of awesome, well recommended books and excellent magazines that I paid good money for, as well as family and friends that I can be interacting with. (please don't read into why the reading material came first in this sentence).
I HATE to use wisdom from something that could be on needlepoint on a pillow, but no one ever laid on the deathbed and said "Gosh Mavis, my only regret is that I spent more time on Facebook or reading dick jokes on twitter or looking at FAIL pictures on Reddit"